stuff about things not related to any challenge......

so i realize my stress levels have been high, but it hit me today that it could be far worse........ i'm worried about situations people have put themselves into and i cannot save them, for my words and advice are unwanted......... there are people out there who are suffering through no fault of their own, so it's time to let my stress go........... i pray the end result turns out favorable, i pray they open their eyes before choices are taken from them, i hope they do get everything they desire.......... i just can't let myself be tossed into turmoil time and time again when their choices are their worst enemy......... my energy deserves to be spread to those who want and need it......... to the children who are sick, to the parents who are injured, to the folks who have lost so much during these natural disasters.......... i deserve to spend my energy on myself to better myself and those around me........... no amount of love can help one that does not desire to help themselves........ that is all for today, me telling me, to pull my head out of my ass and do what i know is right..........no matter how much it hurts........

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